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Trust 101

I admire people who unreluctantly opens up without weighing in the gravity of what they are about to unload. It's either they are a truly free-sprited person or simply naive of their willingness to trust. I could imagine pouring your heart out to your very best friend, but to friends you have acquired, though you feel easy getting along with, a revelation could mean a lot to your so-called friendship. Enjoying a night out with a pal and sharing bountiful of laughter can be the start of a great bond. But if all you have in common is ending each other's punchlines, then it is not made up for a sturdy friendship. The real test is when one is in need. The way the other person responds or the sincerity of the act would make or break that kinship. And most often than not, it is too late for the person who entrusted his revelation, to take back what he/she thought was a safe seclusion. Either the person who was confided to didn't take the disclosure too seriously, or he/she is...